Congratulations! You just got engaged, and I couldn't be happier for you. I know that this is an exciting time for you, but I also understand that planning a wedding can be overwhelming. As a wedding planner, I am here to guide you through the steps to take when you first get engaged.
1. CELEBRATE your engagement!!!
The first thing you should do when you get engaged is to celebrate! Take a moment to enjoy the excitement and happiness of the moment. Whether it's just the two of you or with family and friends, take the time to celebrate this milestone in your relationship. Then do not forget to post a great photo of the day celebrating your engagement on social media!
2. Hire a wedding planner
If you are feeling overwhelmed or unsure about where to start, consider hiring a wedding planner. In fact, please reach out to me! A planner can help you with everything from selecting vendors to managing your budget. We can also help you stay on track and ensure that everything runs smoothly on your wedding day.
3. Set a budget
Before you start planning, it's important to have a budget in mind. Knowing how much you can afford will help you make decisions about everything from the venue to the flowers. Sit down with your fiancé and family and discuss what you are comfortable spending on your wedding and who will be contributing to the budget3
4. Start a guest list
Your guest list will have a big impact on your budget and venue selection. Start making a list of everyone you want to invite and consider whether you want a small or large wedding. This will help you make decisions about the venue and catering and also select the right location for your guest count numbers.
5. Choose your wedding party
Once you have a guest list, it's time to choose your wedding party. Think about the people who are closest to you and who you want by your side on your big day. You may also want to consider whether you want a traditional wedding party or something more unique. And don’t be pressured into there being an equal number standing up on each side! Often times there is more groomsmen or bridesmaids, bridesman or groomsladys. And sometimes it is a four-legged friend that stands with you by your side!
6. Enjoy the planning process
Remember to enjoy the planning process and continue to celebrate! This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and it is fun and exciting. Take time to enjoy the small moments and celebrate each step of the way.
Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be. By following these steps and working with a wedding planner (ME) , you can make the planning process enjoyable and stress-free. Congratulations on your engagement, and best wishes for a beautiful wedding day!!!
